What do men want?

So I ask, "What do men want?" I'm not really sure these days. Most of the men I have met lately, seem to want perfection. I am far from that so what kind of men do I attract? I recently had a boyfriend after my marriage ended who I think wanted someone with money and no kids. He has kids, but so do I and I think his plan did not involve other children other then his so it did not work for us. So not long after I broke it off with him, I started something with someone who I adore, but he too seems to be looking for something that I am not. I feel that I am a good person, who is kind and giving, but maybe I am just too nice to them. They take advantage of my generosity and then seem to go looking for someone else. What am I doing wrong? Should I just treat them like shit? Maybe then they will stick around? Everything seemed to be going so well and then all of a sudden he's telling me that we have to stop seeing each other. There were some circumstances with our relationship that sort of prevented us from pursuing anything more then what it was, but I won't go into that right now. Let's just say that we started something that probably should not have started but we were attracted to each other and we went with it anyway. Now I kind of get the feeling that he is using that as an excuse to end it with me because I feel he may have met someone else and wanted to let me down easy or maybe he is just ending it for the reasons that we should have never started in the first place. Sounds confusing but it all comes down to the fact that men these days seem to want the women to be perfect in every way and as you get older, perfection is the last thing we are. If only I could find someone who is looking for a best friend as well as a lover. Someone who he can be himself with and not have to change who he is. I look at the men that I have recently been with and I let them be themselves. I never asked anything of them other then their company and their affection. I want love in return just as I am willing to give my love to them. I still am not sure what men want, but if there are any out there that want someone who will treat them as they would want to be treated send me a message. Tell me what you are looking for.