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Just a person who has so much to give to someone and who has given so much already. Now has found her old love from her past and is figuring out why they ever broke up and what works now to keep this love alive. I like putting down thoughts about love and life and sometimes writing down what I am thinking in regards to my life at the time. Poems, quotes, and songs are interesting to me from the interpretation of others on this topic of life and love. I also write poems at times just to sooth my own mind. I have been through several relationships and I was married for 15 years. I am a single mother now of 2 children. My son is 24 and my daughter is14. I love my children and I only hope that what I teach them helps them grow up to be decent to others. We learn sometimes by our experiences, good and bad and believe me I have had my share of both. I hope I will be able to use these experiences in ways of teaching my children how to live and lead a happy life of their own.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Relationships. Why are relationships so difficult

What is a Jerk, Rat or Bad Boy and why do women crave him? (13,314 reads)

posted Wed, 09/01/10
Women tend to think of bad boy/jerks as naughty boys who are very sexy and great in bed. But what is a jerk really?
We label a man a jerk because he manipulates women’s feelings, actions, and attitudes after his facade has sucked them in. There is something about a jerk that can be very attractive. These men can act as charming and nice as can be. They know they look good. They have their routines down pat. These professional jerks are like fishermen. They regularly go on missions to get things from women by using their bait to get them hooked. Then they keep women dangling from their lines as they pick them clean. They use women because women want to fall for their facades.
Let’s face it. Being with a man a woman is really attracted to is the best in her mind. And when he says things they’ve really been wanting to hear, dying to hear, and thinking they may never hear, women become putty in their hands, without waiting to see if what they’re hearing is for real. These men are manipulators, used to getting their way. And when they stop getting their way they move on. They don’t feel any guilt for hurting her. They feel if she was stupid enough to fall for him then that’s just too bad for her. Many of these men want as many sex partners as they can get and they can get it.
And strangely, many women seem admire these men or at least want sex with them. In fact women seem to crave these guys.
   I found this comment on a blog in title Relationships and I liked this description of a Jerk
Can you tell that I am angry with men.  One in Particular.

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